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7 Ways Being A V***** Every Girl Must Know To Save Her From Getting Betrayed

Discussion about virginity is very long and unending. For the girls who want to stay virgin, it’s really hard to date. If we are talking about losing your virginity, it’s certainly important to also talk about why you don’t have to lose it anytime soon. Actually, there is a lot of pressure to do it, particularly if your partner needs it badly, and you are still not ready for this at all. Also, the question is, if you want to have sex, either you should do it or avoid it? But the answers depend on the situation you are going through. You have to handle your relationship status by your own and find out that either the person you are dating is trustworthy or not.

1. Realize That This Is Not Your Fault

1. Realize That This Is Not Your Fault

You have to realize that virginity is very important, and it’s not your fault if you defuse from intercourse. As VermillionRoses said, ” This has nothing to do with you. Do not do something like that just so you can say you did it. It’s clear that your virginity is special to you; don’t ever lose it for someone else. Please remember that.”

2. Never Do It Unless You’re Ready

2. Never Do It Unless You’re Ready

Satisfaction of mind is very important before a task is done. Also, these are remarks of Waterbaby, “Do NOT have sex with someone unless you’re ready. If guys are dumping you because you won’t have sex with them, that’s their problem, not yours. Only have sex if you feel mentally and physically ready and there’s consent from both parties. You don’t have to do shit to keep a guy around like that. If he can’t respect that you don’t want to have sex, he isn’t worth your time.”

3. Don’t Be Manipulated Into Doing It

3. Don’t Be Manipulated Into Doing It

Actually, to remain a virgin or not is totally your own decision and don’t get pressurized from others and get manipulated by them. Also, ShellyB shared her story, “I am not a virgin but recently I have been in relationships where I wanted to wait to have sex, longer than the guy would prefer. I did end up breaking up with it in one case because the guy accused me of “not trusting” him but, I am pretty sure it was code for “not giving him sex.” It’s a long story I don’t just randomly believe trust and sex are the same, in this case, I am 90% that’s what he means.”

4. Realize You Don’t Have To Prove Anything

Spidergirl999 said, “I am also 17 and I’ve never had sex. There’s nothing wrong with it, you have nothing to prove. If he wants you to have sex, then he’ll work for it and make you comfortable enough to agree to it. You will regret sleeping with someone if you are not 100% ready, emotionally AND mentally. Just wait.”
4. Realize You Don’t Have To Prove Anything

5. Try To Figure Out If Your Guy Is Using You

The main thing is to check out if you are getting betrayed by your partner or not. As Alexisfsg said, ” He is just using you too. If the sex means more to him than the relationship forgets him. And wait to do it with someone who doesn’t mind that you don’t want to have sex.”

5. Try To Figure Out If Your Guy Is Using You

6. Stand Your Ground!

And Shy.beth said about stand your ground that, “Your ex-boyfriend wasn’t worth it if he dumped you for that and stick to your guns. You should only have sex when you are ready with the right person in the right situation, don’t let anyone persuade you to do something you don’t want to and don’t just have sex for the sake of it.”
6. Stand Your Ground!

7. Wait For Someone Who Will Wait For You

Also, you have to only wait for those who could wait for you as well, Dawn989 said, “I agree with some of the posts above. Do not have sex with anyone until you are ready. I am sure it will be someone who will wait to share that moment with you. Don’t rush sex, you will know when you are ready. It sucks that you were dumped over that but someone will wait for you.”

7. Wait For Someone Who Will Wait For You

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