Discussion about virginity is very long and unending. For the girls who want to stay virgin, it’s really hard to date. If we are talking about losing your virginity, it’s certainly important to also talk about why you don’t have to lose it anytime soon. Actually, there is a lot of pressure to do it, particularly if your partner needs it badly, and you are still not ready for this at all. Also, the question is, if you want to have sex, either you should do it or avoid it? But the answers depend on the situation you are going through. You have to handle your relationship status by your own and find out that either the person you are dating is trustworthy or not.
1. Realize That This Is Not Your Fault
You have to realize that virginity is very important, and it’s not your fault if you defuse from intercourse. As VermillionRoses said, ” This has nothing to do with you. Do not do something like that just so you can say you did it. It’s clear that your virginity is special to you; don’t ever lose it for someone else. Please remember that.”
2. Never Do It Unless You’re Ready
Satisfaction of mind is very important before a task is done. Also, these are remarks of Waterbaby, “Do NOT have sex with someone unless you’re ready. If guys are dumping you because you won’t have sex with them, that’s their problem, not yours. Only have sex if you feel mentally and physically ready and there’s consent from both parties. You don’t have to do shit to keep a guy around like that. If he can’t respect that you don’t want to have sex, he isn’t worth your time.”